Synonyms for Diddle (same or very similar meaning)
WordNet sense 1 (deprive of by deceit):
bunco, con, defraud, goldbrick, mulct, rook, scam, swindle, victimize, nobble, short-change, hornswoggle, gip
WordNet sense 2 (manipulate manually or in one's mind or imagination):
fiddle, play, toy
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