Synonyms for Discerning (same or very similar meaning)
WordNet sense 1 (unobtrusively perceptive and sympathetic):
discreet
WordNet sense 2 (having or showing a sense of what is fitting and considerate in dealing with others):
tactful
WordNet sense 3 (quick to understand):
apprehensive
WordNet sense 4 (having the ability to perceive or understand; keen in discernment):
perceptive
WordNet sense 5 (showing or indicating careful judgment and discernment especially in matters of taste):
discriminating
WordNet sense 6 (mentally acute or penetratingly discerning):
clear-sighted, perspicacious
WordNet sense 7 (characterized by ease and quickness in perceiving):
percipient
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