Synonyms for Abrasive (same or very similar meaning)
WordNet sense 1 (a substance that abrades or wears down):
abradant, abrasive material
WordNet sense 2 (causing abrasion):
scratchy
WordNet sense 3 (having or caused by an irregular surface):
rough, unsmooth
WordNet sense 4 (sharply disagreeable; rigorous):
harsh
WordNet sense 5 (not to your liking):
disagreeable
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