Synonyms for Pansy (same or very similar meaning)
WordNet sense 1 (large-flowered garden plant derived chiefly from the wild pansy of Europe and having velvety petals of various colors):
Viola tricolor hortensis
WordNet sense 2 (a timid man or boy considered childish or unassertive):
milksop, milquetoast, pantywaist, sissy
WordNet sense 3 (offensive terms for an openly homosexual man):
fagot, fairy, queen, nance, poove, pouf
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