Synonyms for Reconcile (same or very similar meaning)
WordNet sense 1 (come to terms):
conciliate, settle, make up, patch up
WordNet sense 2 (accept as inevitable):
resign, submit, resign
WordNet sense 3 (make compatible with):
accommodate
WordNet sense 4 (bring into consonance or accord):
harmonize, harmonise
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