Synonyms for Softness (same or very similar meaning)
WordNet sense 1 (poor physical condition; being out of shape or out of condition (as from a life of ease and luxury)):
unfitness, bad condition, poor shape
WordNet sense 2 (the quality of weather that is deliciously mild and soothing):
balminess
WordNet sense 3 (acting in a manner that is gentle and mild and even-tempered):
gentleness, mildness
WordNet sense 4 (the quality of being indistinct and without sharp outlines):
blurriness, fogginess, fuzziness, indistinctness
WordNet sense 5 (the trait of being effeminate (derogatory of a man)):
effeminacy, effeminateness, sissiness, unmanliness, womanishness
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