Antonyms for Tense (opposite meaning)
WordNet sense 1 (without strain or anxiety):
relaxed
WordNet sense 2 (pronounced with muscles of the tongue and jaw relatively relaxed (e.g., the vowel sound in `bet')):
lax
WordNet sense 3 (become less tense, rest, or take one's ease):
relax
WordNet sense 4 (cause to feel relaxed):
unstrain
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