Verb (used without object) : to condole with a friend whose father has died.    From Dictionary.com. 

A condolatory letter may be acknowledged by the recipient or by a relative or friend who wishes to relieve the bereaved one of this task.    From Wordnik.com.  [How to Write Letters (Formerly The Book of Letters) A Complete Guide to Correct Business and Personal Correspondence] Reference

When the recipient of the condolatory message is simply an acquaintance, it is in better taste to send a visiting card with "sincere sympathy.".    From Wordnik.com.  [How to Write Letters (Formerly The Book of Letters) A Complete Guide to Correct Business and Personal Correspondence] Reference

While trying to convey the right tone in their public messages, some companies also have been working to figure out when to switch modes from condolatory to normal or even celebratory, in the lead-up to the Beijing Olympic Games in August.    From Wordnik.com.  [Ads Walk a Fine Line] Reference

Perry, have got hold (I know not how) of the condolatory address to.    From Wordnik.com.  [Life of Lord Byron, Vol. 3 (of 6) With His Letters and Journals] Reference

A few questions -- a shake of the head -- a solemn condolatory sigh; and all knew that the old Squire's days were numbered.    From Wordnik.com.  [Agatha's Husband A Novel] Reference

I say this in a kindly, even condolatory way.    From Wordnik.com.  [Gad! Roger Altman: ���Hamilton Project��� Is Spinach, Hell!] Reference